But the truth of the matter is that I couldn't even commit to a non-commital relationship. And everything I've done thus far in New York points to my horrendously chicken lifestyle - can't/won't commit, can't/won't find a worthwhile job in my field, can't/won't establish that this is my life here because if this is my life here - if this is my life here - what the shit was all that goings-on for the past 6 years?